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so there was this chick that was into me a while back that i had successfully kept put of my life until about 2 days ago when she blew up my phone like 5 times....after ignoring the first 4, i picked up.....she asked me if i could do her a favor n cash a check for her cause her ID was expired...i figured, sure why not and met up w her about 30 minutes later (poss crazy #1: she was AROUND my neighborhood, when she normally lives deep in LI)

i saw her in her car (poss crazy #2: she was driving around with expired license) and chatted w her for a few minutes, which ended up being superfucking depressing.....in a nutshell, she dropped out of college, her parents disowned her, and she was broke as hell....when i asked her about the car, she said she "borrowed" it from her old neighbor, who's a 50-something year old creeper that tried to bed her (poss crazy #3: possibly stole a car)....she says that she had been living out of her car for the past few days when she ran out of money to sleep in @ hotels, which is why she needed the cash checked....she also said she called me since my number was the only one she remembers by heart (poss crazy #4: she remembered my number by heart over 6 years or so)

the check was from her momma dukes acc, endorsed and alla that, but she said if i couldnt cash it, that i should cash it into my acc....i told her i aint doing that for a shitton of reasons, then i spent 20 minutes or so trying to find her a cheap motel to stay at....meanwhile she's dropping super obvious hints, saying that i should just sneak her into my crib n whatnot....i decide to give her some dough to help her a bit then, stupidly telling her to call me before i could stop myself....then she drove away....

what do i make of this?????? keep in mind this chick comes from a well off family with 2 normal sisters (shes the oldest)....not to mention she's gotten caught lying to me before about having HIV (poss crazy #5: lied about hiv)...i want to help her be a normal fuckin person, but i already know how its gon go down....shes gonna catch feelings and im gonna have to turn her down again....realistically speaking, shes pretty cute, but her mindframe is all sorts of fucked up....how does i proceed|


btw, i think theres only like 2-3 people who might know who im talkin about....to those people, BE COOL AND KEEP THIS ON THE LOWLOW PLEASEEEEEE

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Eddie
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get farrrr away

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CAliMichinsaram
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... i remember this girl ... you had mentioned her before and i believe the general dubu consensus was, stay away from that baggage ridden girl ... i even believe lexy said she'd kick your ass ...

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quit flapping your lips and bumping your gums! your just a fat piece of donkey poo that sits at his computer and posts under 20 id's on dubu, lame!
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naw naw, not "i-want-to-be-strong-like-pikachu"....i aint seen her since that day...this is a girl that goes back to my late H.S days....



fuckin why do the broken and disenfranchised ones always come to me??? am i suppose to be the ultimate repairman????

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tap that hiv ass
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Son. Don't do it. Remember this game with the alligator where you push a tooth in, and eventually its mouth clamps shut on you...Don't do it! Why can't you just find a normal, crazy, korean chick bruv!?


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All I want is a girl that's only slightly crazy.... I.e a normal girl


So how does I handle this???? Ice out and ignore?? Or try to talk to her???

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Are you stupid? This shouldn't be a hard decision. This girl is poison. Stay your ass away.

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if this girl does something drastic/stupid as a result of me choosin not to help her, i'd feel that's on me

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Ok the people who love her the most dropped her ass. Just think about that.

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All the other responses are crass and moronic.

If you can help her, then help her. If you cannot, then guide her to right place (back to her home, consult with her close friends for an intervention, etc.)

There is no Icarusilian fall in this girl.

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... ^ ... are u hyo? ...

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quit flapping your lips and bumping your gums! your just a fat piece of donkey poo that sits at his computer and posts under 20 id's on dubu, lame!
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the hot ones are the crazy ones!!

i say..why not!!

just try to help her the best you can..

maybe something good will come to you in return
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like kid icarus and shit
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It's obvious that she's trying to use him to cash a god damn fake check.
Help her? Don't make me laugh. I'm sure her family helped, trusted, and did the best they could. You're basically a stranger to his girl. What makes you think your help will change her ways? Your help is temporary, and once it's gone she will be too.

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"some niggas save hoes."
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i think you did good.

help her to an extent, but ultimately its on her to change her life around.
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CAliMichinsaram wrote:
... ^ ... are u hyo? ...


i didnt realize it, until you mentioned this.


wb hyo!
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FIFTHORIZOR wrote:
It's obvious that she's trying to use him to cash a god damn fake check.
Help her? Don't make me laugh. I'm sure her family helped, trusted, and did the best they could. You're basically a stranger to his girl. What makes you think your help will change her ways? Your help is temporary, and once it's gone she will be too.


You think their help was enough? Or do you know that their help was tremendous like it would be given to any close, loved one? I don't know. But a family that has given up, never gave the right help in the first place.

I agree with ace. To an extent, you can help her until she loses it all for herself. But the kind and sorts of help that is provided and extended to her is all that makes the difference; the understanding of commitment that is required to understand the problem, destroy it, and then rebuild oneself from it.

Commitment is the key. Men and women say they will fucking help you, but they do not understand the commitment behind their decision. Fucking commit and destroy everything that seeds the evil inside her or not.

It is pathetic for one to say they want to help, but only half-ass it. If that is your feeling, then tell her in front of her face that she lives a pathetic life with no avenues of leaving. At least, you told her the truth and committed yourself behind the decision that you don't want to help. 100%.

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